STIs of the Mind (safe sex)

    We talk about safe sex, carry a condom and never get pregnant. We like to talk about STI of the physical kind, but nobody likes to talk about STIs that can destroy your mind. The one that have you tossing and turning at 3am, raking your brain and constantly wondering 'Was I not good enough for him'. Was it a one time, or the how can I be so stupid to let him in.

  We are in the age, everything seems to be evolving, where we are teenagers with a crave for sex. We talk about safe sex but we forget sex is more of a mental activity involving two bodies melting together with souls. Do you tell your teenagers or that young adult, about not just physical protection but mental protection? How well does she knows that her body is a temple which a man should worship? What about him? Does he know about the psychological impact of sex?


  They are young,and puberty starts, sex craving becomes a part of them. Then, they think they know everything about having safe sex, use condoms , take birth control pills . What about the mental education. What happens when you can't stop thinking about them. Wanting him inside of you. Wanting her. We avoid talking about this STIs that can destroy our minds. We love to give out condoms and talk about how our bodies changes during sex, at sex orientations.

•  Having sex is one thing, being mentally destroyed from it is another thing. We need to create this awareness for that young girl and boy, who decides to engage in sex, how sex can tarnish your self esteem and leave our bodies wanting more, and our minds polluted. When she or he leaves. We often start to feel not good enough of ourselves.

 Deception becomes perception. Did they lie? Was I good enough? Everything starts to feel like fifty questions and at the end of the day, leaves you guessing. Don't be fuck over, and leave your brain with scary memories. Take your time, and use both physical and mental protection, have a conversation about what all this really means before we have sex.