I'm Mad At You Let Have Sex.
We have a lot of phrases that surrounds sex, and sex in relationships. We build sex in our relationships, more than we build ourselves in a relationship. Sex is more like what we dish out to our partners, you fight the couple fights, "let's have makeup sex", rather than talking. The culture has bitten into today's relationships. What happened to talking our souls out about a problem, more than just "makeup sex".
I'm mad at you but let's have sex. What happened to I'm mad at you let talk about it. What happened to when we scream about how you hate the way he throws his socks on the floor. Or you hate how she slams the door loud when you are working. What happened to the honesty that flows from within couples when they can really have healthy talks and disagreements to talk shit over. Let the anger flow in your relationship, most definitely, get mad and talk about it, not just have sex.
I think many couples are using this phrases to hide arguments, but disagreements are healthy, yell it out, it's most likely unhealthy to just have sex then talk, that shit don't last. But the culture have made sex more sexier, having you groping breasts and smacking lips rather than talking.
Build your relationship, have the right time to have sex, and know when it's actually okay to talk things out. Be in a healthy relationship. Invest in your mind. A healthy relationship.
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ReplyDeleteHaving the the right time to have sex will make sex less sexier. I also think some persons communicate better with sex.
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