Abnormal Sexual Behaviors - They Are Not Spiritual, It Is Mental Instability.

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I watched 'fifty shades of grey ', it felt like the weirdest sex fantasies. That's was sexual sadism -The intentional infliction of pain or humiliation on another person in order to achieve sexual excitement.
There are a lot of abnormal sexual behaviors which constitute a lot of things, the sexual behaviors differs from the normal, sometimes it can all be psychologically challenged. Why do we have pedophiles?  Why do we think most ladies drive sexual satisfaction from aggressiveness, the reason most women talk about loving aggressive men? Why are some so touchy, always wanting to touch a woman's breasts and genitals without permission?  Why do most men while standing in a queue, approachs an unknown woman from the rear and presses or rubs his penis against her buttocks?

Paraphillias have in common distressing and repetitive sexual fantasies, urges, or behaviors. These fantasies, urges, or behaviors must occur for a significant period of time and must interfere with either satisfactory sexual relations or everyday functioning if the diagnosis is to be made. There is also a sense of distress within these individuals. In other words, they typically recognize the symptoms as negatively impacting their life but feel as if they are unable to control them.

This behavior is considered to be a part of person's entire psychological make up. It is not fixed, it can be suppressed. It actually affects the person's lifestyle, thinking and emotion states.

They are not having spiritual problems, likely what most Africans, will suggest, when a 30 year sleeps with a toddler or a girl of three years. They are psychologically challenged.

It is a mental health issues which we are not looking into, it's okay to be mentally challenged. It is on his mind, the negligence of our mental health issues is frigging alarming. It's a sexual attraction to things beyond the norm.

To solve the problems of pedophiling, we should make it important and give attention to this psychologically challenged. We need mental health centres, just like the normal health centres. We need counselors in this fields, mental health issues is also important, let's stop referring too much of this issues as spiritual, it's okay to be mentally unstable.