Masculinity Isn't Linked To Money -Who Has More Should Pay.

 We walk into our favorite restaurant, to eat our favorite meals at our spot near the glass windows opposite the sidewalks,  but the waiter expects the man too always pay, even there are days he can't, he feels he has to, men are to be 'hard men'.
 If I am to pretend to have more money so as not to emasculate him, I have no interest in that kind of men who feel that way.

      Our conversations, often drift into deep complexities how a woman can't be making money than a man, "my dear, my dear, a man's capacity can't be equated to a woman's capacity".
  I'm not afraid to say that he is intimidated. Intimidated that, having more money than him, makes him 'emasculated', there is no English word I hate more than that word. But he is, and we can't be partners .
  Often we have raised men, who believe their masculinity is linked to money, that he has to do the providing not a woman.  When we were young, during lunch break,  boys brought girls food in the canteen, they paid for their snack and drinks.  Why?  We have made them, believe he has to.

 Just stop pretending, don't try to impress me. We really need a break, who has more should pay. Baby, just stop pretending, I see it in your eyes that you are faking.  It is funny, and it is corny or maybe insanity, you don't have to take her shopping or buy her jewelry, when you don't have so much money.  But do spend time, and that is quality.

 You are not real a man, and can't be a man, if you keep thinking you have to take the pressure to impress her with money, or pay or buy her gifts, or earn more money, build houses, masculinity isn't linked to money, it is about much you earn.  It is about your tenderness, your fatherhood to your unborn and born babies, how you treat others and how you are to yourself.  Don't turn pretense into an art form . Who has more should pay.